OK, ladies this is a " have your cake and eat to" kind of situation. Yes I am a mature widowed individual with a 4 bedroom home that I live in alone. I am a laid back guy with a good sense of humor. I enjoy taking life easy, no drama, keeping the home fires burning. I don't drink but I am ok with it in moderation. I don't do drugs, don't smoke and have never lifted my hand to a woman and am not going to start now.

My Ideal Person I may not be the youngest bull in the herd but I'm interested in meeting an outgoing lady. I guess you could say a social butterfly. One who likes her nights out with the "girls", one who likes to have fun . Do normal things or maybe some of the wilder things. I like an outgoing flirty, maybe even sometimes can be a slutty lady , or we can set at home and watch a good tv program or movie, or take you out and watch you flirt or possibly pick up someone. I am a orally submissive type. I will watch if asked and I really enjoy pleasing a woman orally. I would also enjoy finding a lady who enjoys men who are well endowed and would like to have them drop by to please her when she wants.A bisexual lady is also of interest to me, or a lady who has a female friend or friends who they like to go out with and party. I am not good at describing what I want or who I am on these things.